Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Well as August gets closer, it is getting more and more difficult to be patient and wait to find out if we have been matched. Derek called Molly today and got an update. One is due on August 11th and the other on August 20th. 35 days and 44 days. Craziness! It is even more crazy to think that they could go into labor early and we could possibly be parents even sooner! Molly is meeting one of the birth moms today (fingers crossed). They will discuss whether or not they are ready to be matched and may look at profiles of adoptive parents. I guess one of the birth moms is having a girl and the other is having a boy. It doesn't matter to us either way so that doesn't make a difference. Derek is starting to get more and more frustrated with the situation. We feel like we have been somewhat mislead. When going through the initial process we thought we would get frequent updates and have the opportunity to really bond with the birth mom. If we are matched a month before the baby is born, it will be difficult to develop a strong bond. I guess we will just make the best out of the situation and keep our head held high :o)

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